That girl that can only be described as one word, crazy. We’ve all either been one or known one before. That girl, she’s crazy, manipulative, paranoid, obsessive, controlling, petty, she lacks confidence, she picks fights, makes excuses, diverts blame and doesn’t own up to her own ridiculous behavior.
I’ll be the first one to admit that I’ve been that girl before. My previous boyfriend drove me absolutely crazy. I was immature, inexperienced, I wanted to control every thing. I tried to control him, our relationship and because nothing was ever the way I wanted it to be, I finally surrendered. We ended things amicably and now in retrospect I see my foolish behavior and I see where I was wrong and where I was right. The most important thing I took from that relationship is that that girl is someone I will never be again. I will never lose myself in a man, and never let a relationship identify who I am. I will never let my relationship consume 100% of my energy and let it blind me from what is truly in front of me.
No more excuses, I’m taking things at face value, I will never be that girl again.
February 19, 2010 at 6:10 am |
It’s a wonderful feeling to come out of something with a totally different agenda for yourself! It’s called: maturing! Seems like he crossed your path maybe only for you to come to the realization of the type of partner you should be for the one that is truly meant for You!! GREAT HONEST POST!!